Sunday, March 30, 2008

No Training Wheels

Last evening about suppertime, the phone rang. When I answered, I heard Boston's voice. "Hi Grandma. Are you at your computer?" When I told her that I could be in a minute, she told me to check my email. "We sent you pictures."

As soon as I found my email, she said, "Look, Grandma. Daddy took the training wheels off my bike and I can ride. All the way to the end of the block. And back."

I told her how proud of her I was. What a milestone for a little girl. I think that most of us can remember the day the training wheels came off. I know that I can. And the look of pride on her face is wonderful. And she should be proud of herself and her accomplishment. Way to go, Boston. This one's for you.




Maddie, your day is coming soon. I'll be waiting for your phone call.



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Love, Grandma

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Easter Bunny

My grandchildren are lucky enough to have a set of grandparents who know the Easter Bunny personally. The went to see this rather large rabbit with their Mom and Dad and Staci's parents. The looks on the faces and the sparkle in the eyes of children young enough to still Believe is priceless.












This picture of Boston and Maddie coloring their Easter Eggs brought back memories of my own childhood. We didn't do the egg hunt thing, but we always colored eggs for the holiday. It was a great production of boiling eggs and of cups in a row on the kitchen table to hold the dye. I don't know what the coloring kits are like now, but ours had different colored tablets that looked like Sweet Tart candy. These were dissolved in hot water and vinegar, the vinegar being the catalyst that adhered the dye to the egg. There were wax pencils to draw a design on the egg, and when dyed, the design remained white. This was probably pretty primitive compared to what the grandkids did.


And there was always an Easter Basket full of goodies for us on Easter morning before we went to church. The chocolate bunnies were my favorite. Although we were supposed to leave the candy alone until after Easter dinner, the bunnies seemed to lose their ears before we left for Easter Services. Dad would tease us about the deaf bunnies in our baskets.


It is nice to see traditions carried on by the youngest generation.


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Friday, March 28, 2008

New Rain Boots


Sometimes a picture comes my way that just makes me smile. This is one of them.

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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Day by Day

When I first started making digital scrapbook pages, I looked through all of my collected photos, searching for those of special events, of old photos of family...those photos that held a specific memory for me of days gone by. I looked for photos that reminded me of places I had been and things that I had done, or relatives from my past. It is good to have a keepsake to help remember these events and people.

But then, as I looked at other photos in my collection, I found that there were many that I had of kids and grandkids that showed them just living day by day. I didn't necessarily have to have been there to take the photos. I enjoyed seeing what they do when I am not there. I think this is why I so love to find photos in my Email. They make me feel a part of my family, even though we are not always together.

David and Staci brought Jacob to see me at my workplace yesterday. It was near the end of my work day, and I was able to spend some time holding Jacob, and showing him off to my boss and friend, Starla. We called Poppa, and he came down to the shop to get in on the holding and showing off thing. What a lovely way to end a particularly hard day at work.

While they were there, I asked if Boston and Maddie still considered Jacob their personal play toy. David had told me earlier that the girls acted like he and Staci had brought them a living dolly to play with. Staci said that Maddie still wanted to play with him allot, but Boston, being the older of the two, was now more into "helping." She has gotten good at feeding him, and Staci said that this does help when she is busy doing other things. I had already made this page showing Boston feeding Jacob, and that bit of information added to my enjoyment of this photo.





I was not present when these photos of Jacob and his Dad were taken. But it gives me all sorts of warm fuzzy feelings to see photos of my adult children with their children. Makes me believe that in a world of chaos and troubling headlines, there are still pockets of peace and calm, where a Dad can take a nap on the couch with his baby son.






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Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Photos In My Mailbox

We all lead such busy lives these days. We don't get together as a family very often. Once in a while I gripe because I don't see my grandkids as often as I would like. Everyone is so busy. But I am just as guilty as everyone else.

Spring has sprung. At least that's the theory. I seriously doubted it as I gazed out my window on Easter to watch the snowflakes falling. But the calendar says it is Spring, so I guess that it must be so. The arrival of spring turns the dog grooming shop where I work into a madhouse. Everybody wants their pets washed, fluffed and buffed to get rid of the winter's grunge. So the hours that I would like to spend on digital scrapbooking are spent on getting customer's pets pretty for Spring. That's my excuse for so many days between entries on my blog, and I am sticking to it.

I understand that it is hard to make time for visiting. There are little things that interfere, like working to pay the mortgage, grandkids involved in activities, and just the daily chore of living in our fast-paced world. So I am happy when photos arrive in my Email Mailbox. I get to see what the kids and grandkids have been doing in their busy lives. I love this computer thing. There was a time when I had to wait several days for photos to arrive in the mail. I would watch for the postman to deliver the day's mail, and try not to be disappointed when the pictures weren't there yet. Now I get a phone call telling me to check my Email, and sure enough...instant gratification. Photos!

These photos were sent to me a week or so ago by David. I just this morning finished scrapping the last one. Every now and then I will sit at the computer and scroll through the pages I have made, just enjoying seeing in each one the faces of those I love best. It isn't quite as good as hugging and kissing those faces, but it will do.






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Monday, March 17, 2008

509 West 14th Street

I have no idea why I remember the address of this house. These days I sometimes have to stop and think about my own address or phone number. We lived at this address for a couple of years before moving to the farm. I went to third and fourth grades at Garfield Elementary on the west side of Willmar, and started fifth grade at Sunnyside, so that is the time frame of living in this house.




As Libby and I became older, we outgrew the little apartment on the east side of Willmar. Dad rented this house on the west end. I remember that the siding was a light green color, and that it was absolutely bare of shrubs. Mom and Dad planted some shrubs and flowers in front, and put up some chicken wire on one end of the little front porch that held a climbing vine of some sort. Then they planted a little garden out back of the house. They had a way of making any house seem more homey.

It was while living here that Mom and Dad became friends with Bill and Marie Welker who lived directly across the street. They would remain friends for the rest of their lives, staying in touch even after Mom and Dad moved north. Bill and Marie had three girls, two of whom were near the ages of Libby and me. Two houses down lived Elmer and Olive Butler, who also continued their friendship with Mom and Dad for many years. Their daughter Diane was a playmate of mine. Elmer was a carpenter by trade, and had built a small playhouse in their backyard for Diane. She and I spent many hours playing there.




This was a time when kids could roam their neighborhood without needing their parents in attendance at all times. There were many children in this neighborhood, and we all got together in the evenings and played Hide and Seek, Hopscotch and other children's games. It was more exciting because we could play after dark without the fears that we have today about our children being outside without adult supervision. We all knew when it was time to go home because Larry Carlson's mother, Lucille, would call him to come home first, from their house at the end of the block. Lucille was a cousin of Ronnie Lindblad's. She had a happy disposition and a voice that could call in hogs from the next county over. There was no mistaking when it was time to go home.

Halloween was an especially fun time while we lived in the little green house. The neighborhood kids all dressed up in old clothes of their parents. Nobody had store-bought costumes. We usually carried a pillowcase for our Treats. And away we kids would go throughout the neighborhood, ranging two or three blocks in any direction from our house. We went Trick or Treating until Larry's mother called, and no matter how far away we were, we always heard her and headed for home. We were usually a little bit sick upon arriving home from sampling the goodies from our bags, but I remember how much fun it all was.



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School was a five-block walk away, and the neighbor kids walked every day unless the weather was really bad. I remember that there was an old house about halfway to school. It hadn't seen a coat of paint for years, and the yard was overgrown as were the trees and shrubs, making it look spooky. We made up all sorts of stories about who might live there, like a witch that would steal children, ala Hansel and Gretel, or a crazy ax-murderer, or some other horrifying individual. Most of our stories ran to the haunted house theory, with a range of ghosts, goblins and vampires residing there. Truth be known, I never saw anyone there, and would guess that the house was merely abandoned. But it was fodder for fertile imaginations, and I know that we always ran past it so as not to get caught by whatever ghoul we were thinking lived there at any given time.

It was during this time that I learned to ice skate. Each winter an area at Garfield School was flooded to form a skating rink. I spent many Saturday afternoons at that rink, pretending to be a great figure skater. In reality, I never was able to master skating backwards or doing spins, but I thoroughly enjoyed the activity all the same.

Mom used to tell this story on Dad. It seems that Dad had feet that were at least two sizes smaller than Mom's. He wore a size 5-1/2 shoe, and had to shop in the Boy's Department to find shoes to fit. So he liked to tease Mom now and then about the size of her feet. He also liked to clown around for the amusement of his children once in a while. On this particular evening, he was teasing Mom about her feet. He rolled up his pant legs to just above his knees, put on a pair of Mom's dress shoes, and proceeded to dance the Charleston in the living room, with her larger shoes dangling whenever he did a kick step. Now, this living room had a large picture window facing the street. And facing the Welker's house across the street. Dad had neglected to close the drapes before giving us this impromptu dance recital, and Bill and Marie were witnesses to it. Of course, they could not resist teasing Dad about his dancing abilities, and Mom didn't let him forget about it for quite some time. She said it served him right for teasing her.

I realize that my life at this time sounds like something out of a TV series - "Leave it to Beaver" or "Ozzie and Harriet." And I guess that it probably was similar. There were no "play dates." Mom's just told their kids to go outside and play. Most Mom's were home all day, and kids were watched by the Mom in whose yard they were playing. We knew that if something bad happened, we could go to the nearest neighbor and find help. Today I live in a secure building and am glad for it. I never visit my neighbors. Nor do they visit me. Rarely do I venture outside after dark unless it is to take the dogs out. I find these facts of life rather sad and totally alien to the way I was raised. So I am glad that I have my memories of a gentler time.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

First Home in Willmar


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Pictures of houses that I lived in as a child bring back memories. This is the first house my family lived in when we moved to Willmar. To tell of it, I need to go back a few years before.

Mom lived in Blackduck all of her life, and Dad lived on a farm out the Scenic Highway from Blackduck all of his life. When they married in 1945, they rented a little house in Blackduck. But they found that jobs for Dad were scarce, and those that were available didn't pay enough for them to raise their family, so the decision was made to move to St. Paul where job opportunities would be better, and stay with Grandma Paul while Dad looked for work.

Dad found a job working on an assembly line at a factory called Seegers, where refrigerators were made. He hated it. He was a country boy, and although he was never afraid of hard work, he just didn't like living in the city and working in a factory. So he kept at it, but looked for jobs somewhere else where he could raise his family in a smaller town. In 1951, after Libby was born, he found an ad in the Sunday newspaper for a job working for the State of Minnesota taking samples of grain in Willmar.

Now, this was at a time when men wore suits much more often than now. Men wore suits to church, to go to a restaurant or to the movies, and especially when they went to interview for a job. So after consulting a map to find out where Willmar was, Dad set off wearing his best suit, to apply for the job. He thought that perhaps the job was in a lab of some sort, testing grain for whatever they tested for. He was wrong.

After applying for the job, he was put to work immediately. He found himself in the railroad yard at Willmar, climbing into boxcars, wearing his suit pants and starched white shirt. He carried a brass probe that was about 6 ft. long. The probe was made of two brass pipes about 4 inches in diameter, one inside the other. Both had holes on the sides that, when the ball knob at the top of the probe was turned, would line up and allow grain to pour into the inside pipe. The knob was then turned again, trapping a sample of the grain inside the center pipe. He pushed the probe down into the grain and took several samples in each boxcar, and the samples of grain were emptied into a long cloth sack that was then sent off to be tested. Upon arriving back in St. Paul that evening, he first told Mom that they were moving to Willmar. The second thing he did was to go out and buy a couple of pairs of bib overalls. He would work this job until he retired 25 years later.

Dad worked with Lowell Ekbom, who was to become Dad's best friend. At that time, Lowell and his wife Ellie ran a small neighborhood grocery store located in an older house on the east end of Willmar. They lived above their store. Lowell told Dad about an apartment for rent in the same block as their store. It was the upper floor of a house owned by a rather large, homely Swedish lady that I knew as Mrs. Larson. She had a heart of pure gold. She helped Mom and Dad furnish the little apartment and was lenient on the rent until Dad was back on his feet.

The apartment had a small living room located at the front of the house, facing the street. There were two small bedrooms, a tiny bathroom and a kitchen. The kitchen was at the rear of the house, and was accessed from the outside by a wooden staircase. I still remember the white painted table and chairs in the kitchen, and mittens drying on the radiator just inside the door.

There was a little girl just my age living in the house next door. Her name was Annie, and we were best of friends. A large hedge separated the two houses. It was not a hedge that was kept trimmed, but one that had branches hanging down, and when the leaves came out in the spring, it made a wonderful place for two little girls to play. We played house, using the branches as the walls of our house. We also played "Indians." Most kids at that time played "Cowboys and Indians." Roy Rogers and Gene Autrey were popular then. The neighbor boys weren't allowed in our make-believe tee-pee under the hedge, and if you played "Cowboys and Indians," you had to shoot people when the Indians attacked the cowboys, and we didn't want to shoot anybody, so we played "Indians." We spent some time feeling sorry for ourselves, as we both had baby sisters who took our parents attention away from us, but mostly we just had fun together. We learned to ride bikes at the same time, and when the training wheels came off, we explored our end of town. I lost touch with Annie when our family moved way across town.

We didn't have a television then. I had seen television. Grandma Paul had one. But we had a marvelous big console radio in the living room. It was a piece of furniture that was about table top high and maybe 2-1/2 feet wide. The radio part was in the top third of the console, and had a dial that lit up and lots of knobs for tuning in stations from all over the country. The speakers were built into the bottom two-thirds. We listened to the radio in the evenings. We heard music from the Grand Ole Opry in Nashville, and listened to serial stories like "Fibber McGee and Molly." This was a comedy that had a running gag. In each episode, McGee would open his closet door, and everything that was crammed into it would come tumbling out, with appropriate sound effects that seemed to go on forever. Music to a kid's ears. Dad loved cowboy music - Gene Autrey, Ernest Tubb and Hank Williams, and Mom liked the crooners - Frank Sinatra, Frankie Laine and Bing Crosby. I liked the stories. There were detective stories like "Dragnet," and "Johnny Dollar," and the westerns, "Gunsmoke," and "Roy Rogers." We listened to the comedy of George Burns & Gracie Allen and Jack Benny. The first major news event I remember listening to was the election of Dwight Eisenhower as President. Recently I found on the Internet a website where I can listen to radio from the 40's and 50's. It is fun to listen and remember while working on my computer.

One winter while we were living in the apartment, I remember a snowstorm that roared through Willmar. I don't think it was a major blizzard, but it dumped quite a bit of snow and then the winds blew it into big drifts. After the snow stopped and the wind died down, Dad and I bundled up and headed the block down the street to Lowell and Ellie's store for some badly needed supplies. The wind had piled snow in some places so high that a couple of cars were completely covered. Dad let me walk over the drifts right on top of the cars. When we got home, we took Libby out to play with us in the snow. She was just a toddler then, and she managed to toddle right off the edge of the porch. She disappeared from sight in the snow. Dad dug her out and then decided that we'd had enough fun in the snow for one day.

We lived in that apartment about three years before moving to a little house on the west end of Willmar.